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My Coach Ray
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Your breakthrough starts here.

Maybe it's your health, your finances, your relationships, or something you can't quite name. You've made progress before, then slid back to old habits. Progress, then back again.

This is where you create the lasting change you want.

Many people want to change something and have a hard time doing it. You decide this is the year, you make some progress, and then you slide back to where you started. It happens with health, money, relationships, all of it.

Often it is not about trying harder. It is about what keeps driving the pattern, and that is the part we work on.

How I help you create your breakthrough

A breakthrough is change you can build on, not a burst of motivation that fades. It comes from four things, done in order. This is the model behind the work, one area of your life at a time.

  1. Release Work

    We find what has been holding the pattern in place, the old emotions and beliefs underneath it, and clear them at the root. This is where the work begins.

  2. Create a Compelling Future

    With the weight cleared, we build a clear picture of what you want, and we build it so it pulls you, instead of something you have to force yourself toward.

  3. Take Action

    We turn that future into a plan and you work it, so the change shows up in how you live.

  4. Maintain Focus

    We keep you moving toward what you want as life happens.

About Ray

Ray Ciafardini, Jr.

I started My Coach Ray in 2016, after more than a decade in sales, recruiting, training, and developing people.

My work is influenced by Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Mental and Emotional Release®, and Hypnosis. I am a certified trainer in all three. You can learn more about each and how I use them.

What is NLP?What is MER?What is hypnosis?

Ways to work together

Three ways in, depending on where you are and what you are working on.

Private Coaching

One on one and focused entirely on you and your goals.

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Group Coaching

Ongoing, month to month. Tools and strategies to keep making progress on what you want.

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Better Life Accelerator

A 90-day program to help you finally do the thing you have been meaning to do.

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What people say

"Working with My Coach Ray has been THE single best investment in myself over my entire life of learning."

Kevin N.

"He has a way of thinking that makes you re-think the most important aspects of your life that we place on auto-pilot. His ability to reframe scenarios and ask sharp, pressing questions propels you into a calming sense of clarity."

Dr. Dean P.

"By letting go of the negative emotional garbage, I have the opportunity to decide what I desire and implement tools to bring me closer to my goals. There is not another personal growth experience out there that can create so much forward momentum and ongoing growth in every area of life."

Amy E.

"Coach Ray is the Real Deal. If you are seeking self-improvement in ANY area of life, you have found the place to get it going."

Terry B.

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Let's talk about what you want to create.

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